@marcialangton@AndieHamblin@janecat60@CFMEU There is no one better placed to speak out about domestic violence and the importance of healthy relationships. We should be encouraging him to speak of his experiences and act as a role mod...
THE ex-partner of the woman suspected of murdering her four children last month in a horrific crash says he warned Child Safety for years that “she would do something like this”.
Here the same scenario over and over...
Dads raising concerns, outsiders raising concerns about children's welfare in a mothers care, children telling psychologists what is happening to them whilst in the care of a mother..
Falls on deaf ears and nothing is ever done to protect the little ones.. about time the people who make change stood up and did something to make changes....
It’s epidemic! Too often fathers are not listened to! The mother can say whatever she likes and we have to prove ourselves innocent and fight through a slow, overcrowded, under resources and convoluted system. Been through it. System is so far away from where it should be it is ridiculous.
A very sad arranged murder suicide!
This is just so tragic, and even more so that it could have been prevented. What is it going to take for them to make changes to the system? This Dad has lost his precious children because the people who should have listened to him didn’t!! When questioned its always the same explanations and the same excuses, it’s to little to late and it is not good enough!! They can do all the investigations they like, but they are useless unless action is taken to make the changes!
RIP! Ive tried to reach out over many years even including ABF but have found little help. Its so hard to find someone that understands and help.
I'm living the same thing with my ex partner. I have sooo much evidence of child abuse, threatening to kill my children and no one will listen..Even the Court's
Hope to get my story across on the Sunday night program true stories..If anyone can help please message me. It will bring you to your knees.
This is so very close to home and so very close to my heart. My thoughts are with this poor father and the hundreds of thousands of other fathers being treated like they’re somehow less important than mothers 😢
Pretty sure if a father had done this and not a mother it would be plastered over every news program for months😠 DOCS do nothing, family court is a joke and the police facilitate covering up evidence 😔
So sad but I’m glad the truth is coming out that our family has known all all along. Hope that James can work through this.
He let JUDGES, LAWYERS, POLICE, AND DOCS KNOW!! And still no action, a father ignored. If it was the mother making these accusations, those authorities would have acted straight away.
Family Court as usual prefer to hush these kind of incidents up. I’d like to think that there are those magistrates that at least have some reservations about their decisions or at least have a little trouble sleeping at night, but I doubt it very much.
Read the same story in News.com and is completely watered down. No mention of warnings to police, docs etc. Media just as much to blame as the govt for the deaths of so many.
That comment Mother’s a more likely to kill is an insult to us woman however I fully agree these poor dads deserve their children and mothers the mothers that denies deprives a child of their loving father shows their character- if the father is a good father than no father should ever be without equal custody of their children
Such a shame. Sweet little innocents.
The despair a mother goes through to kill their children is the despair a father goes through at not having access to their children.
I'm gutted, that poor dad, like many gets shafted by the system that fails so many😢😢
Evil or mentally ill? There's more to know about this story. I never understand a parent taking the lives of their own children 😢
Yes there are some very evil women out there.
The courts and the child protection. Are on the females side
Some people should get there heads out of the sand. ( I Keep that clean. ).
I know some women like that 😢😢
Fucking typical plenty of warnings still nothing done I’m fortunate to be blessed with a great ex wife who does right by the kids and by me .But why do authorities always think the bloke is talking bullshit it’s time for a royal commission
I'm in the same situation. And everyone turns a blind eye and pretends it isn't happening
Is that 83% figure accurate? Every father I know who even has shared responsibility has care skewed against them in the Family Court.
So very sad
How sad children are not weapons the deserve both parents in there lives it’s cruel and heartbreaking 😢
What a tragedy :(
Why did he continue to breed with this person if he knew she was evil? I’m sorry but surely after creating one life you would know?!!!
Request ABF start a petition on equality for both parents(Change.org). I was forced to multiple attempts to suicide, being a veteran with diagnosed PTSD and Major Depression CSA showed no compassion and continued to harass and unfairly assess to the extent that I ended up in hospital and now on Veterans Pension and unable to work. I was a Full-time employee in a job I loved contributing to the tax man but now thanks to CSA I am now a tax receiver and she doesn't get a cent. Well done CSA, its all about checks and balances. Not lives or logic. Personally CSA should be abolished and only have the family tax benefits, That way children are less likely to used as means of income and the hostile parent will have to work like the rest of the community.
I think there are only 2 ways to beat the system, 1 find another country to live in where CSA cant touch you, 2 Go on the dole and never work again, If all CSA victims did that, the agency would have to shut down.
I never received child support, CSA was suppose to collect on by behalf, they always said don't worry u will eventually get ur money. 4 years later, being owed over $10,000. I get a letter saying the have reviewed it and now I'm owed $67. I rang up to query it, was told to lodge a dispute form. Got a reply saying the new amount stands. From $10,000 to $67 for over 4 years of full time care! (she hasn't seen her son in over 5 years now)
When we had shared care, her 4 days me 3, I had to pay $75 a week! $75 for one extra day a week. Great system we have!
Leith I am in the middle of the craziest story you've ever heard.. when it's all over and the dust has settled and once all is proven through the courts you bet I'll be fighting for the rights of all fathers.. if I wasn't so weighed down with fighting for ever aspect of my life right now.. I would pm you brother.. soon enough truth will prevail
Brothers here's a reminder of the damage done to our children when they are restricted access to their parents.
Has anyone in Australia had the Police, Child Services, an ICL, Child Support, a Magistrate, a Judge or Politician raise concerns about the damage caused by restrictions of access and parental alienation of our children?
NOVA l PBS Even brief separations can impair the brain development of a young child or infant.
Read more: https://to.pbs.org/2tnfALD ... See MoreSee Less
It’s quite interesting as had this pointed out by the family report writer. But her following comments to me was as the judges don’t understand child physiology. There is no point using the harm that is been done before them as something they have no idea about. Which showed very true though the court system
It’s sad but children according to the court system are not even though about
It’s time that judges get the required education for the job they are doing as they currently don’t have
What's the best way to see my kids asap? My wife kidnapped my kids and I haven't seen them in a month. She also put a DVO out against me.
So sad 😞
Then we blame teachers for low standards?
Don’t let the facts get in the way of the left feminist movement
Looks like someone separated her face then sewed it back on
Im suffering from this at the moment where I've always been a huge part of my kids lives, we always had a good working relationship as a seperate couple and we have been seperate for over 5 years... Now she is pregnant with her partner and all of a sudden I'm told I can't just call when I like to speak to my kids.. And now she's blocked me on Skype from calling them each night like I did.. And I've seen her new partner of less than 6mths putting my bloody kids in his profile pics on Facebook and people commenting on what a beautiful family they are... My kids are 8 and 9.. I've never assaulted their mother.. Never done anything to my kids.. Never touched drugs.. And don't evem drink.. But just like that she can decide i cant talk to or see them as her new partner feels intimadated by me.. I've never said a word to him.. My kids must just think I've dissapeared from their lives.... I feel like I've just been replaced by some random bloke and i truly have no idea why she is doing this.. So I need to see a lawyer etc now.
But I feel absolutely devastated that I don't get to tell my kids I love them each night and for the first time in my life I literally feel like without my kids I have zero purpose in life... Sorry for the rant but I just feel so hopeless.