Turned out @hettyjohnston was a little triggered tonight by the reality that women do make false allegations of domestic violence. Here’s a tip Hetty if you ride the same horse every where you go it’s only ever going to know one tric...
We contacted the media about police whistle blowers stepping forward with complaints that they were being directed to not contact men until after an application was heard in court. This is a betrayal. @QldPolice@YvetteDAth@CoPStewart#...
Our reforms to the child support system will overhaul how child support is calculated and paid. We will remove the financial incentives that are paid to parents who withhold access to children while ensuring on-time payments for parents who have private agreements.
We can’t continue to vote for political parties who ignore the betrayal of fathers and their families!
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there is much more than who pays and who doesnt pay,percentage of care is the most important part to dads.False labelling of DEADBEAT dads has many sides to that discusting term used against fathers.Many fathers SUFFER from mental health issues and have tried so hard with all they have to keep working but cant,does that mean he loves his kids any less or doesnt deserve to see his kids.Anyway i would be more concerned about how many mothers are on single mothers pensions and all the freebies and support services that they drain out the government but no its always about the dads how shit the dads are.
No one is questioning the importance of assisting in the financial support for a child. I believe your argument in this conversation is not the "whole picture" Michelle.. If you are trolling this page just to create problems in a discussion I suggest you take that phone your on and place it somewhere else.. The aim of a page like this is to create an opportunity to discuss this major issue that separated parents face daily. It's about making a system that allows fairness to both parties but more importantly access to the children who are more adversely affected by the breakdown in a relationship. Unfortunately history has shown that some Mothers use the court systems and the financial benefits of maintenance as a tool to use against the separated parent. The generation I'm in and the future generations growing up now dont stand a chance in fairness.. Starting to see your a bit of a troll... You've had your bit and for the most I agree.. But now is the time to stop.. Your posts seem to be about financial accountability.. I'm about the whole package including fair and equal rights to the children. You have said this under my first post and now here again. If you cant understand this then please take a hike
Child Support should be on the base wages after taxes are paid. No child gets the benefit of tax paid so why calculate Child Support on Gross Wage. Overtime should be Child Support exempt and not used to calculate child support. Just my view.
All CHILDREN have a right to access to their fathers. Whether visit phone letter or social media. All children and fathers have the right to get the same support counselling education and assistance as the mother..
Been waiting 6 months for child support to adjust my payments. Still waiting. And 2 years no contact.
Because the current system is so flawed and needs a complete overhaul ..
It’s two different legislations for two different processes.
Child Support has nothing to do with the FLC process.
What is missing is, what happens between the two seperate processes.
Fixing the gap is what is needed. Not blaming Child Support for everything.
Because the role of father has over decades been diminished to nothing more than finacial, society really needs to wake up to the importance of fathers in their child's life and the positives men bring to the table.
Funnily enough no body from ABF had ever answered the question as to why more candidates aren't being sought or put forward.
We could only hope.. These two in my profile pic I have not been allowed to see for years... Just because is the excuse.. The government dont give two shits as long as we foot the bill
Totally disagree with his last opinion on Bill Shorten and the greens ,, would have loved to vote for you party as a change.. but not if your preferences go to the Libs or any other backward racist non progressive party,,,
What was the answer?
Whether a parent sees a child or not the child still needs a roof over their head food clothing medical schooling etc . Why should a parent not have to support their child just because they dont see them .
Anymore videos from the night?
This system is so flawed! The family court system also needs a massive kick up the ass! There needs to be a push for change and child support needs to be overhauled!
I’m in Upper Mount Gravatt for a meet the senators public forum tonight.
*As an update on this post it became clear from questions asked of Rod Fox that some senate candidates (Hetty Johnston) do not believe that mothers make false allegations of domestic violence to restrict access to children.
If you have experienced false allegations of domestic violence and through these allegations have then been treated badly by police and the courts now is the time to speak out!”
You must give these issues a voice and help us bring reform. Talk to friends and family about why it’s important that they vote for the Australian Better Families Party.
I used to discuss this with the daughter of an independent children's lawyer.... It happened a lot.
Fathers are replaceable ... That's the attitude given to mothers when the wheels fall off... If only the courts truely cared about the children involved.. If only
Sadly victims of both sexes have become money spinners for certain charities & other organisations, blind eyes are turned to keep these cash flows running smoothly
We will be mate, that dark avoidable road many have had to walk is never forgotten
Had 3 last week all malicious and vexations. Even drove past when police were talking to me. Claimed child welfare concern showed police my daughters iPad where the mother had been talking all day. She’s now listed as male male false complaints and is being investigated for possible criminal offences for the other 2 false complaints
Many children could give some stories of verbal physical emotional and spiritual abuse by their mothers...
Children could tell of drug and alcohol abuse.. but they are not heard..
More than I can remeber.
I was lucky and she had a history including falsely accusing her dad of sexual abuse, so I did eventually get shared residence but the accusations she was making could of seen it go a very different way and my trust in people and justice has been severely damaged.
Brothers police have confirmed that they are being directed by the magistrates court and domestic violence service providers to delay notifying fathers that they must attend domestic violence hearings until after it has been heard and orders made.
They are colluding to pervert the course of justice by using police (who are deeply concerned) as a tool to betray men who in most cases end up in the family law courts!
We need to hold these scum bags accountable by changing legislation to protect all victims.
Australian Better Families Party Domestic violence laws are failing Australian families with reports that the courts and domestic violence services are colluding to pervert the course of justice. The courts are making exparte orders deliberately by not notifying respondents in domestic violence matters of the date and time they must attend.
Police have confirmed that they are being directed by the courts not to notify men named in domestic violence orders until after the hearing date. These men then miss their opportunity to defend themselves thanks to these actions.
Have you or your family experienced this type of betrayal by the legal system?
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Our policy will enforce a zero tolerance approach to all family and domestic violence. Domestic violence legislation will be amended to ensure services and support will be provided to all victims regardless of their age, gender or sexuality.
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I would view this as illegal however the practical side is that you would have to appeal the process adding to the stress and costs
Funny younsay that as I was given my notice to appear in court 2 hours before the time. The only reason I even go given it was I went in there to get other parts signed when they saw me said by they way while your here we have papers to serve you then I looked at the day which was today and the time which I only had two hours to get ready. My darling x had gone in the week prior but I didn't even know until the day of court
Surely there's a law , to be given the right to be totally informed , before they pass any order!
This is so wrong!
Again it's the children that miss out , Vendictive
Woman , using the courts to their advantage.
Take your personal issues out , & give the children the rights to have both of their parents
In their life.
I cant find when the referrendum was passed giving state magistrates high court powers to give federal orders.
It may be to late for some of us the answer my friends is to write down what happened every time a violent partner acts out with date and time. Every time she yells, calls you names or lashes out in anyway to you or the children. Every time you go to your doctor take the list and a copy the doctor may co-sign it, if not he will make a mention on your file. As much as anything women use the police better than men do once the police have been activated they must proceed. Men are to trusting of their former partner, which doesn’t mean all women behave in a destructive post relationship. Try not to dislike all women because one woman has harmed you, that will only cause you more grief, use the law if a crime has been committed before she does and the shoe will be on the other foot. Every time a other men harm a woman every man is a victim of the fallout caused by that man, so we are on the back foot to start with. Most women are remarkable human beings just like most men, it is a minority of men and women who who make life difficult for the rest of use, keep smiling.
Happened to me... notified the day after orders were made in my absence,,but of course they could not be amended/modified as easily in her absence as she would refuse to front the judge. Where is my little back room to hide in, support workers and free coffee.
I was lied about taken to court for not being abusive in any way, I never hit my children or wife never threatened to harm her or my children in any way. I was the parent who had to constantly comfort cry children who had just been abused by her daily. While she physically and verbally abused myself and the children endlessly, I was utter madness. It was that bad I was post chronically ill with Ross river fever and had 4 nervous breakdowns in 2 years, the first two I lost about 5 kg in a week, the 3rd over 8kg in a week and the 4th I lost 13kg in a week. Yet I was done like a dinner in court. The judges need to be held accountable for their actions the outcomes destroy good men and children. The awkward reality is that women not men are the most abusive, the most neglectful and murderous humans to their own children. You can not be a judge and not know this yet on the slaughter goes. Men must write down and date every abusive event no matter how significant then men must report that information to their doctor every time they visit their doctor otherwise you will be done like a dinner. Being a noble man hoping that she will be nice is a recipe for precisely this type of disaster, fathers educate your sons.
My ex repeatedly did this
Yep....remember that Amber Alert a few weeks ago. Mother said father had kept the daughter when in fact he still had 2 days left. He was at the Courthouse putting paper ready for his next court case and only found out that his Court date was the next day and he had not been notified. Leith helped him get it all sorted. Poor guy....nearly ended up without his child. No action taken against his vexatious ex. Disgusting woman
This happened to me!
This is the government way of fixing DV court hearing excessive workload ?
This is 100% true. Happened to me. Exactly 5 minutes getting back from family court for (pushing her away from hitting me) I got a knock at the door - cops handing me papers to attend criminal court. The must have waited hours sitting in a car till I got home. They never even bothered to show up in court and case was dropped but not before I engaged a lawyer and spent $7000. 🤬
Just one.of there dirty tricks.whole system is a sick joke. Needs to be scraped and a fair system implemented
So bloody wrong!!
Good luck!! If white men were female or Muslim, there would b outrage!!
And he didnt have children..
No sh.t pretty sure that's what happens standard.
Anyone need anymore proof that blokes get fucked over?
It happened to me in December 2017... kids put on DVO no evidence no reasons.. ended up getting the court paperwork in January 2019
It's disgusting that police and courts take it upon themselves to basically treat the father as guilty b4 he has the chance to even defend himself and to see so many stories of females lying and claiming falsely they have been abused is very worrying in a whole. The men not only face victimisation by the ex with false reports but r also being deemed guilty and having no chance to clear the charges. What is going on with our country. We r supposed to be the lucky country but so many head figures in courts,politics and law enforcement r making sure they ruin it for everyone. They should be charged for failure to notify and held accountable disgusting behaviour.
The system from cops to courts to CPS to corrections is a paralyzing destructive unfair system
Brothers we can set your watches to the moment allegations of domestic violence or restrictions of access to children are used on the lead up to Easter, Christmas, birthdays or Father’s Day.
Each year the phone at the ABF run hot with fathers and their families who are distressed because of cancelled access, kids not being put on planes or police turning up with an IVO, AVO, DVO, VRO of breach notices.
It only changes when we make it change!
Vote 1 for the Australian Better Families Party at the next federal election and help us protect our children from ongoing parental alienation and family violence.
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Often it’s during religious holidays like Easter and Christmas that families suffer the most when child access restrictions and family violence are ramped up with deliberate restrictions of access to maximise emotional distress.
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So imagine my surprise after complying with a court order for access to one of my children was revoked after I had spent $1000 on flights, $680 on acc, $400 on a hire car. I wasn’t given approval until last Wed hence the high costs involved. Flew from Vic to Qld for Fri morning pickup only to be told no. Now all she has done is piss me off and instead of taking it, I’m going to report her today for revenge porn on FB and 73 counts Breaching my privacy all kindly submitted to court by her. Time to turn table I’ve been hoping that she would finally wake up after 4 yrs. obviously some jail time will help her!
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A new classification? Congratulations on being on the ball enough to name something that is decades and decades old, my hollier than though enlightened ex wife has been doing this from before we were seperated, 7 years now, i havent talked to my 16 yr old daughter for 12 months now and i got a call from the local police easter saturday morning with her next load of BS, the police are now sick of her and taking my word over the phone.
I saw a news article this morning that said Family violence. Australia's hidden epidemic.
So I read it....
It was an incident in England... Nothing at all to do with Australia. The people involved were not Australian.
But the headline said.. Australia's hidden epidemic.
How can we possibly move forward and tackle a problem when the media just want to falsly grab everyone's attention?
I wish there was some way of reporting that article to a review board...
Happens all the time
No SA candidate.
IVO, AVO, DVO, VRO what do they mean?
Boys be strong hang in there
Lisa Mantle ya should read through this and a couple of their older posts .
Donna Currey this is who I was talking about.