I spent the morning with Sam Childers AKA, “The Machine Gun Preacher” & one of his protégés Ben Okello, who hails from Pajok Village, South Sudan. Sam talked about the programs he and his team are running in Africa. #Faith#Action
Today staff & volunteers from team Endalldv, ABF Legal and Family Reconnect successfully completed our first aid training course.
Big thank you to John from Synergy Central for organising the training at Endalldv House & presenting an ...
Politicians fail to understand that their inaction is killing fathers. They are so disconnected from ordinary Australian families that they are not even aware of the connection to broken policy. Male suicide is a national emergency that ...
Brothers here’s another Prime Minister pretending to care about Australians.
It only took about a week for government to pass new laws to protect strawberry farmers (this is great) so why does it take decades to fix family law, child support and domestic violence laws to protect our children?
The simple answer is they don’t care if your kids suffer and it’s you paying out thousands to see them, because that makes money for government.
We need new leadership that will ensure Australian families are first to benefit before all others from good social policy.
We are better together... #Vote1ABF #BetterFamilies for a #BetterNation
Easy answer look how many billions of dollars it generates to keep father's away from their kids its extortion at it's best
Imagine the effects on the industry if they fixed family law etc issues, we would have a whole bunch of unemployed lawyers and law firms would be going broke. Imagine the impact on the dole ques?
I've basically lost all faith in our system
Family law threw the law book out years ago it’s that twisted and that messed up. For doing the wrong thing they pat them on the back. Even when a child gets assaulted and the judge committed if I can’t deal with it in halve an hour it will never be delt with. As apparently had a morning tea to attend the next morning. Thanks judge Harnet
Polly’s are too weak to deal with family law. One of those things they love to sweep under the carpet.
Thanks Governor General this is your responsibility to fix this corruption of a service calling themselves law. There is no law left
No one wants to offend the purple hair brigade.
Will be the shortest tenure by any PM in history
Laws implemented don't go far enough
amen brother. ABF NUMBER 1
All against the Australian Constitution! Until they swear the Oath of The Australian Constitution they will never work for you, only themselves!
Bias against men in not necessarily in the law, it is that it is rampant in our society, there is no support for men in any of the service providers. Because it would be seen as discriminating against women. And thats why no poli will touch it
The only reason the LNP won’t act on the numerous failings of the family law industry (and it is an industry) or the administrative blunt instrument that is CSA is because they’re terrified that they’ll lose their female voters.
The ALP is full of misguided feminists like Wong and Plibersek and they have no interest in doing anything for separated males.
The major parties are so inwardly focused that they discarded constituents’ concerns about 20 years ago.
Vote them out.
Just remember to vote wisely,
End the duopoly.
To many ignorant people, will still vote for the same party because that is who their parents did.
Vote below the line on he white senate paper. Put labor, liberal, Nats and greens last. We need to do this so we can force change.
ABF and other parties are our only hope.
Another muppet who thinks he cares.
Maybe fix family law up I have spend 25.000 dollars plus to see my niece and nephew with my mum the grandmother.
While some other non biological grandmother takes over plays house let's her son abuse my nephew!! Fed up!!
While the mother of the children thinks this is funny loves this, I recently find out the horrible news of what she tried to keep away from me and what she done to the children. 😭😭
You Should Send This Video To My Ex.. she Has Alienated All Her Three Children From their Three Fathers 😪
Well if there abused by either parent or grow up in a place of rape murder violence and no law probably a better way of life....
Don't know if it helps but the uk and cafcass (social workers for the court) have excepted it causes harm in relation to pa.
Again, please only use relevent literature to maintain credibility. This vid is describing what occurs when a child is seperated from an attatchment figure without another attachment figure present. The issues being addressed in this video are not relevant to seperation between parents, but seperation of child from parents. Miss representing scientific theories is one sure fire way to get destroyed on every level of analysis. I am passionate about the Brotherhood of Fathers cause and support you guys immensly. There is plenty of literature on the lowered outcomes of children from single parent homes and in the absence of father figures, so there is no need to misuse this stuff.
And it's not just pollies.
It's the selfish mothers of these children who have a problem with the father's and deny the rights to see their own children that don't see this as a problem. They just move on to some other fella
I was separated from my parents when my mother fell ill when I was about 5. My father couldn’t look after me so I was passed around to different family members to be looked after. Then my mother died when I was 6. I was then adopted to a family member & her husband. A couple I had never met, I was just told this was now my new mother & father. When I asked where my mummy was, I was told she was dead and they would be my parents and I was to forget about her. I am now 63 & have never gotten over the fact that my mother died and I never even got to say goodbye. At 6 years old you don’t no what death is. I felt abandoned and living in a loveless home with this couple ruined my whole life.
Brothers everyday we get calls for dads who are struggling to understand how after raising and caring for their children for years they are suddenly unfit to be a parent because mum says so.
Prior to separation there were no problems looking after the kids or attending school functions, but as soon as the relationship is over mum deems dad unfit and the police, the courts and our society allow it to happen.
We can’t continue to ignore the generational abuse of our families or the national emergency that is male suicide through the failure to keep fathers connected to their children and families.
As a mother of a single dad I can say this with conviction.
To the single dads doing it tough. Shame that Child Support Services targets the wrong people and gives them a raw deal. All it takes is one lie from their nasty vindictive ex partner, and their whole world is turned upside down. If only these women could see, having custody, is not a license to destroy a soul. Your children will grow up one day, and they will make up their own minds...... hang in there guys. ❤ our little girl is now 22, and she and her dad are inseparable. She formed her own opinion, as they do when they grow up.
My son is in jail now because of a dvo. The stupid thing is the magistrate threw the DVO out of court. He told my sons mother in law that she had caused nothing but trouble and grief for my son due to her false dvo claim.
My son saw his ex and his son in the car at a set of lights one day. He put his window down and tried to speak to his son. The ex called the police which in turn put my son in breach of the trumped up dvo.
It is a system that is failing badly
So sad that some women enjoy the act of revenge and that our society is letting this happen. Our legal system and Centrelink are screwed.
We are in the opposite boat; since our son's dad met his new partner he hasn't called once, he has answered 3 of my calls (no texts) and spent only 1.5hours with him, he didn't even have him for fathers dad like we organised.
I feel for guys who cant have their kids as I see our son suffering, he wants his dad but I cant do anymore than I've already done.
His boss indicated mental health issues so I dont want to force our son on him.
I haven't heard from my boys in over 4 years and I don't know what lve done wrong if anything. Will they ever understand the pain, heartache and loneliness that lve experienced.
Not all woman do it, my mother did it & I could NEVER do that to my children.
Its sad some woman think this is OK!! Its not fair on the Dad or the kids.
I would like to know what are the support groups that can physically help with fathers . Father’s that are getting closed doors with government agencies . Where do they go !
Unless you have $20-$50k to spend on a lawyer what are they meant to do if the court system is not working due to the Mother’s lies and manipulation.
50/50 access, unless there is any detriment to the Child!!! This is the 21st Century, yet the CSA treat all Fathers as 'absent parents' and ATM's, and encourage Mothers to reduce access to increase the CSA payments!!!! One day they will be seen for what they are, but for many that day will be too late!! 😤😤😤 21 a week. Be Strong!!! Support the ABF!!
The kids are the victims of self centred adults,in my case I’m the remaining parent left on this planet,so I have learnt a few things on my hard road!dont use kids as weapons full stop!
There maybe some terrible dads out there but let’s not forget there are also great dads
Mothers should have to prove all their claims
Well this page gets your mind going , i have a daughter i haven't seen for 16 years she will be 19 this December , after her mother said many years ago I'm going to financially ruin you for life and told her when she was 3 years old that i died in a car accident, it was better to stay away for my piece of mind ...but still paid my child support and lets say that government department takes you to breaking point but there is always light at the end of the tunnel but when i don't no.
When I was a kid we spent every second weekend with my dad until he beat my disabled brother and locked him in a room over night no dinner nothing. I couldn’t do anything it was the one weekend I forgot my phone so couldn’t call mum or anything. When we got home mum put my brother in the bath and found bruises she didn’t want the cops involved but he had to be taken to hospital and the hospital called them. From that night my dad hardly spoke to us and my mum tried everything to get him to see and talk to us but he hardly did even as adults he only saw us maybe once a year. I know my mum tried i saw the messages.
The children miss out on time with the other parent... I feel sorry for all the children caught up in such futile, time wasting, benefit getting, arguments and for what???? Time cannot be given back.... some damage cannot be undone. The children must come first!
Hi Iam a mum of 2 kids my husband left me then on a visitation a year later he kidnapped the kids & took a AVO out on me saying Iam physcotic mentally unstable for 14 yrs he worked away as much as he could he admitted the kids where too much as they have special needs
He took the kids away from me as I was raped viciously & now has alienated them against me..
Tonight I got to have a brief conversation with my daughter she told me she doesn’t love me & I deserved to be raped it breaks my heart anyone with any good advice to help me see my babies
I want to join but want to know how membership money will help make change in the terrible legal and Centrelink system
My boyfriends ex wife did this to him, he is still trying to strengthen the bond, but i feel it’s something that will be very hard
It’s just words, how are you planning to make a difference, just another minority party that can’t do anything.
Until men receive equality as do the apparent weaker parts of society, nothing will change.
If we are paying money then the government doesn’t have to, I can’t see them stopping that anytime soon.
Havnt seen my little girl in two years. After the vro got put in place I tried multiple times to take my life, it’s a miracle im even here.
I couldn’t handle it and that’s a thing of the past, still don’t get too see my little girl now, but all in good time, vro has expired and it’s going through the WA court system (been told average time is 2 years for cases tho).
FYI before the separation I worked for fire and emergency services and held a very unique position. Amazing how much our lives can be changed by our partners actions
So true if only the court actually had an unbias system maybe it would change but i highly doubt it !!
So so wrong
Very sad for these dads and very angry at the vindictive women / system that allows this to happen . Very very sad to hear , but at the same time outraged !!
Thank you ABF for your support and highlighting for all of us father's doing it tough with CS and custody issues 👍👍👍
I love this page although I'm not from here. I lost my boyfriend two years ago.. His ex wouldn't let him see his girls and forced no contact later. He drank himself to death fighting his inner demons which won. He died of acute alcohol poisoning. May 30, 2016.
Seems this is also prevalent in the United States. 😪😪
I know in some case dad's are bad news but supervised visit should be ok kids need there Dads and mums to ,,, Mums you are doing your kids more harm then good ,, and dad who have custody should let mum see kids too supervised if need be ,,
I saw a sign hanging from a bridge on my way back from sunny coast.. around nambour, that said 'I just want to see my children' and I couldn't read the rest, absaloutly broke my heart, I would be so pissed if my sisters kept their children from their fathers out of spite
Regardless of your views on same sex parenting it sets the precedence for who is the most suitable parent to look after kids. Society needs to make up their minds, can’t go both ways.